People love a good story. Movies, books, tales and graphic novels all tell naratives which entertain, teach, comfort and connect with us in a deep way. When tragedy stikes in a family, story is a great way to help kids understand what has happened.
If someone has died, here are some suggested books about grief for children published in recent times:
1. “The Invisible String” by Patrice Karst (2000): This book explores the idea that we are all connected by an invisible string of love, even when we can’t see our loved ones. It provides comfort to children dealing with separation or loss.
2. “The Memory Box: A Book About Grief” by Joanna Rowland (2017): This gentle story helps children understand the process of grief and how to cope with the loss of a loved one.
3. “Nana Upstairs & Nana Downstairs” by Tomie dePaola (2000): This classic book addresses the concept of death in a sensitive way as a young boy copes with the loss of his great-grandmother and then his grandmother.
4. “Ida, Always” by Caron Levis (2016): Based on a true story of two polar bears in New York City’s Central Park Zoo, this book helps children explore the themes of loss and friendship.
5. “The Goodbye Book” by Todd Parr (2015): With its simple and heartfelt illustrations, this book reassures children that it’s okay to feel sad when saying goodbye, whether due to loss or other life changes.
6. “The Rabbit Listened” by Cori Doerrfeld (2018): This story shows how different animals respond when a young boy experiences loss and grief. It emphasizes the importance of listening and being present for someone who is grieving.
7. “The Scar” by Charlotte Moundlic (2011): A touching story about a young boy processing his grief after the loss of his mother. It provides a realistic and empathetic portrayal of the grieving process.
8. “The Heart and the Bottle” by Oliver Jeffers (2010): In this beautifully illustrated book, a young girl copes with her grief by locking her heart away. It explores the theme of opening up to healing and love after loss.
If you are looking for resources to support the children in your life after a loss, take a look at these. They are available online to buy, but ask at your library and they may have these and other books about grief on the shelves. Reading stories together provides comfort and promotes healthy conversations for kids experiencing the confusion and grief of loss.

