Finding Belonging at Gather Round — Even If You Don’t Like AFL
South Australia comes alive during Gather Round. Streets fill, pubs buzz, and people travel from across the country to be part of something bigger than themselves. And while the footy is the headline act, the real magic sits underneath: shared passion, community energy, and the simple joy of belonging.
Humans are wired for connection. Having a common interest — whether it’s AFL, gardening, gaming, or baking — gives us an instant bridge to others. It creates a sense of “us”, a feeling that we’re part of a team even if we never step onto the field. Spectatorship isn’t passive; it’s communal. Cheering together, groaning together, wearing the colours, knowing the stories — these rituals strengthen social bonds and boost wellbeing.
Research consistently shows that being part of a community, even loosely, supports mental health. It reduces loneliness, increases resilience, and gives people a sense of identity and continuity. For older adults, especially those navigating life transitions or feeling a loss of purpose, shared interests can be a lifeline. They offer structure, conversation, and a reason to show up.
But what if AFL isn’t your thing? You’re not alone — and you’re not excluded. The real invitation of Gather Round is to connect. You can enjoy the atmosphere without knowing a single rule. Try:
- Joining the social side — community events, live music, food stalls, and local gatherings.
- Finding your version of “team” — a book club, walking group, craft circle, or faith community.
- Leaning into curiosity — ask someone what they love about footy; people light up when sharing their passions.
- Creating your own ritual — a weekend tradition that brings you joy, even if it’s far from the oval.
Gather Round reminds us that belonging doesn’t require a membership. It simply asks us to participate, connect, and let ourselves be part of something bigger than us — in whatever way fits us best.
